Is coercive control against the law?
It depends on where you live and which legal system applies. Start here, then check the current law in your state or country.
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Start with three legal questions
- Is it a crime? A prosecutable offense with police involvement. This is still rare in the US and standard in the UK and Ireland.
- Does it count in family court? Whether coercive control can be considered in custody, parenting time and divorce decisions. This is where most US change has happened.
- Can it support a protective order? Whether non-physical control counts as domestic abuse for a restraining or protection order. Many states allow this in practice through broader definitions of harassment or abuse.
Is coercive control illegal in the United States?
There is no federal coercive control offense. Change has come state by state, mostly in family law: roughly a dozen states now require or permit courts to consider a pattern of coercive control when making custody and protective-order decisions, with California, Connecticut, Hawaii and Colorado among the earlier movers. Several more states have bills in progress each session.
Because this is moving quickly, the reliable way to check your own state is a legal information service rather than any summary page, including this one:
- WomensLaw.org — state-by-state domestic violence statutes (a project of the National Network to End Domestic Violence)
- The National Domestic Violence Hotline — advocates can tell you what protections exist locally
Is coercive control a crime in the UK and Ireland?
Controlling or coercive behavior is a criminal offense in England and Wales under section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015. Scotland's Domestic Abuse (Scotland) Act 2018 goes further, covering a course of abusive behavior including psychological abuse. Northern Ireland and the Republic of Ireland both have equivalent offenses.
Home Office statutory guidance on controlling or coercive behaviour
Confidential helplines for the UK and Ireland are listed on the safety help page.
Is coercive control illegal in Australia and Canada?
Several Australian states, including New South Wales and Queensland, have criminalized coercive control, with others consulting. In Canada, coercive control is recognized in family law through the Divorce Act's definition of family violence, and criminalization has been debated federally. Confidential helplines for Australia and Canada are listed on the safety help page.
How the law may use this information
Even where there is no specific offense, a documented pattern of control often matters: for protective orders, for custody, and in assessments made by courts or agencies. Rules differ by location. General documentation guidance is available here: how to document coercive control safely.
Questions people ask
Is coercive control illegal in the United States?
There is no federal coercive control offense. Around a dozen states now recognize coercive control in family law — meaning it can be considered in protective orders or custody decisions — and a small number have gone further. Recognition is changing quickly, so check the current statute for your state.
Is coercive control a crime in the UK?
Yes. Controlling or coercive behaviour in an intimate or family relationship is a criminal offense in England and Wales under section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015, with equivalent offenses in Scotland (Domestic Abuse (Scotland) Act 2018) and Northern Ireland.
What evidence do courts look at?
Typically a pattern over time rather than single incidents: messages, financial records, restricted contact with others, witness accounts, and the effect on the person's day-to-day freedom. What is admissible depends entirely on your jurisdiction — ask a lawyer or advocate.

