About MendRii
Plain language for relationship patterns that are hard to describe.
The key point
Some harm has no single incident — only a slow narrowing of what you can say, do, spend or choose.
What MendRii does
- Gives you words for hard-to-name patterns.
- Asks about context: agreed, mutual, or consequences for saying no?
- Points you to specialist human support.
What MendRii does not do
- Diagnose anyone or decide whether abuse occurred.
- Score risk or predict behavior.
- Give legal, medical or therapeutic advice, or serve as evidence.
Why context matters
Shared location can be mutual — or a demand with consequences. MendRii asks what happens, how often it happens, what happens when you say no, and whether you are becoming more or less free to make everyday choices. None of it becomes a score.
Private by design
No account needed. Check-In answers stay in your browser. MendRii never tells you to leave, stay or confront anyone — it points you to specialist help. Details are on the privacy page.
Why purple and teal?
Purple is the color of domestic violence awareness. It stands for the courage of people living with control, intimidation and harm inside their own homes — and for the communities that believe them.
Teal is the color of healing after loss and trauma. It stands for remembrance of those who did not survive, and for steady support for the people who carry that grief.
Woven together, these two colors are the heart of MendRii: recognition of abuse that is happening now, and hope for what comes after. They are why you see purple and teal across everything we make.
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MendRii is educational software. It does not diagnose, does not assess risk, and is not a substitute for a domestic-violence advocate, clinician, attorney or emergency service. See terms.