Need to leave quickly?

Coercive Control is ABUSE.

It isn't always physical. Sometimes the words leave you questioning everything.

Not sure what to make of something someone said?

Paste or type a message. Explore patterns you may not have recognized.

For example: “Why do you always make everything about you? Nobody else would put up with this.”

Explore a Message
Check the pattern — free intro
Scroll to explore

Silent violence can look like:

  • Checking your phone, tracking your location, or controlling your money
  • Cutting you off from friends and family
  • Explosive anger that keeps you walking on eggshells
  • Threats to hurt you, your kids, your pets, or themselves

Learn the SIGNS

Payment is handled by Paddle, our payment partner — that's the name that appears on your statement.

No account needed, pay with Apple Pay, Google Pay, or card.

Prefer ongoing access? Monthly is $9.99/month

Stay Informed

Free updates on coercive control laws and MendRii resources. No payment needed.

Only the emails you choose. Unsubscribe anytime. We never sell your address — see Privacy.